Think positive

I was sitting out in the sitootrie this morning, thinking about the language we use.

It is so easy to believe that you are thinking positively, when, in fact, your language is negative.

And I do believe that what we say, think and do, or rather, how we say, think and do it, is reflected back to us.

Think about it...how do arguments escalate into full blown fights? Because the negative language, and actions are reflecting back and forth between the two parties. How do you best stop an argument in its tracks? By speaking softly and non-aggressively. Think about it...it's very had to argue with someone who is being positive towards you!

And when we are trying to achieve something, the language we use to think about it needs to be positive. No use thinking "I won't be a lazy slob today", all your sub-conscious hears is "lazy slob". You have to be positive. "I will be motivated and energetic today".

Just an observation!!

Today I am grateful for positive language. We should make an effort to use it more often.

Gratefully yours.
xx